hi friends, lovers + people probably related to me - 30, flirty + thriving on a serious note, i’ve been thinking a lot about this tavi gevison article, haley nahman’s last maybe baby newsletter - sexual agency + the subsequent lack thereof, the concept of “surprised consent” per you’re wrong about (listen to the episode about the amy fisher), and the recent coverage of sarah everard disappearance/murder and all the disappearances/murders that aren’t covered. the original version of this section was too long and slightly rant(y), a prosecco fueled stream of consciousness word vomit. these thoughts + feelings are still swirling around in my brain and if they’ve been preoccupying yours as well e-mail me + i’d love to chat.
these are a treasure. i hope you have a lovey weekend!!